This post is for the ones that feel as if they are unworthy of being loved. They are surrounded by great people and they still decides to choose the opposite route. This is the guide to being unhappy and you should avoid these things.
Trying to be perfect----No one is perfect. Trying to be perffect would only drive you crazy. Not tolerating mistakes from yourself or others would on lead to unhappiness because being perfect isn't possible. Everyone makes mistakes
Stay in your comfort zone- I thought that in life you are suppose to grow and learn. Well tell me how you expect to grow if you stay in your comfort zone. You are suppose to be willing to take chances because that is how you grow as a person. Stop being afraid and chicken out about everything. You would get absolutely no where by doing this. The booik to the left is a great book to read about stepping outside of your bubble.
Don't be youself---Why would you waste your valuable time comparing youself to others?? We are all made to be different, to be unique. Don't think that the grass is always greener on the other side because it's not. Learn to use your own unique qualities to your own advantage. Appreciate the qualities that God has instilled in you. Be happy with the person you are!! Trying to be someone else would only lead to continuous unhappiness. Also, the book learning to love youself is great readings for you.
When feeling overwhelmed, push away------Accomplishing any goal isn't easy. You have to work towards it. In the long run, it would surely pay off. If you feel overwhelmed and push away, you are giving up because things are getting harder. You have to push forward and believe in yourself and your abilities.
Well, I hope this helped you guys and if you have any comment, like always feel free!! :-) I'm here for you!!
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